
Including Siblings in Your Baby’s Naming Ceremony
Involving siblings in your baby’s naming ceremony can create a heartfelt and inclusive experience, strengthening family bonds and making the day even more memorable. At Willow Bespoke Ceremonies, we specialise in crafting personalised ceremonies that celebrate your unique family dynamics. Here’s how you can involve siblings in the naming ceremony readings:
1. Assessing the Sibling’s Age and Comfort Level

Understanding the age and personality of the sibling is crucial. Younger children might prefer shorter, simpler readings or participatory roles, while older siblings can handle more substantial readings. At Willow Bespoke Ceremonies, we work closely with families to ensure each child’s involvement is appropriate and meaningful.
2. Selecting Suitable Readings
Choose readings that resonate with both the sibling and the family. This could include:
- Children’s Literature: Passages from beloved books that speak to family and love.
- Poems: Simple poems that convey warmth and welcome.
- Family Stories: Personal anecdotes that highlight the sibling’s relationship with the new baby.
Our celebrant, Jane Jones, can assist in selecting or crafting readings that reflect your family’s values and the sibling’s unique voice.
3. Personalising the Reading
Encourage the sibling to share their own thoughts or stories about the new baby. This personal touch adds depth to the ceremony. Jane can help guide siblings in expressing their feelings in a way that complements the ceremony’s tone.
4. Providing Support and Practice

To ensure the sibling feels confident:
- Practice Sessions: Arrange times for the sibling to rehearse their reading.
- Guidance: Offer tips on pronunciation, tone, and pacing.
- Positive Reinforcement: Encourage and praise their efforts to build confidence.
Jane is dedicated to supporting all participants, ensuring they feel comfortable and valued during the ceremony.
5. Alternative Ways to Involve Siblings
If reading aloud isn’t suitable, consider other roles:
- Participating in Symbolic Rituals: Involve siblings in unity rituals, such as a sand ceremony, where each family member adds a different coloured sand to a vessel, symbolising unity.
- Presenting a Gift: Have the sibling present a meaningful gift to the new baby during the ceremony.
- Assisting with Ceremonial Elements: Tasks like lighting candles or arranging flowers can provide a sense of responsibility and inclusion.
At Willow Bespoke Ceremonies, we embrace creative ideas to ensure every family member feels included.
6. Celebrating the Sibling’s Contribution
Acknowledge the sibling’s role during the ceremony to make them feel special:

- Verbal Recognition: Thank them publicly for their participation.
- Keepsakes: Present a small token or certificate to commemorate their involvement.
- Capture the Moment: Ensure photographs are taken of the sibling during their contribution.
Jane ensures that each ceremony honours the contributions of all participants, creating lasting memories.
Final Thoughts
Involving siblings in naming ceremony readings enriches the experience and strengthens family bonds. With the personalised approach of Willow Bespoke Ceremonies, you can create a ceremony that celebrates each family member’s unique role in welcoming your new addition.
For more information on planning a bespoke naming ceremony, contact Jane Jones at Willow Bespoke Ceremonies. Together, we can craft a ceremony that reflects your family’s love and unity.